Different types of Guys you'll meet
First one is the Nice Successful Guy. In business, they are the shit. They’re sharks. These guys normally own huge businesses.. they make anywhere from $100,000 a year to millions a month. Maybe more. These business range from insurance companys to some thing.. less admirable. But when it comes to relationships and women, they are completely clueless. They’re the “nice guys”. When it comes to women.. you find their weakness. These types of guys either get suckered and used by women all the time and believe what every girl tells them… or they stay away from women completely thinking everyones just after their money. (which is true majority of the time so you can’t blame them) Eventually they find a high maintence girl, good looking, absolute bitch that he likes and is willing to settle with them. And she has him by the balls after that.
These guys are not to be confused with the Successful Asshole. These guys are also successful.. but as far as I’ve seen they don’t make as much as the Nice Successful Guy. Maybe just your average 6 figures a year. Most of these guys were losers while they were growing up. Or at least when it comes to getting girls. As they grew up and came into money they learned money can indeed buy you “love”. Or at least rent it pretty well. And they’ve come to accept that there will always be girls who only pay attention to them for their money. And they don’t care. These guys treat girls as objects. They will always have an unlimited supply of women. (as long as they’re income keeps coming in). But they will never experience true love. When they finally do find that one girl they want. Most of the time, she doesn’t want him. So he retaliates and treats girls even worse.
Than you got just the Nice Guy. These guys just got your average 9-5. Not much of a risk taker and definately not a womans man. They were never the best at what they did, but never the worse. Some of them wonder why, while others just accept that they will always be mediocre. Most of them don’t have a lack of girl friends.. But thats all they’ll ever be. Friends. They’re just too nice. Nice guys usually end up with Nice Girls… normally alot younger than them and as “nice” as they are.
“The Man”.. or Player, Pimp, Womans Man. Whatever you wanna call him. These guys understand women. And they sure do get a load of them. Every girl they meet ends up having a crush on them. The thing is, they don’t want any of them. Sure, they might sleep with them, but there is no emotional attactment. They never stick with the same chick. These guys are destined to be good at whatever they do. Charming, charismatic, funny. Other guys idolize The Man. What people don’t know.. is the reason they are such a “player” is because once, maybe a long time ago, they were actually settled down with a girl and had their heart broken. Most of these guys I know were hurt at one time or another and don’t let themselves get attached to girls so they won’t get hurt again. Their natural charisma attracts girls of all shapes and sizes but their past experience scares them away from settling down. Eventually they will find a girl they actually like but they will be afraid to be with them, in fear they will be vunerable to be hurt again. So they do everything possible to get this girl out of their head. Alot of times they lose her cause she doesn’t understand why he treats her so and ends up thinking shes just another one of his “accomplishments” and moves on. These guys need to learn to trust people again.
The Man, is definately not to be mistaken with The Wannabe. Lots of times, this guy is a groupie of The Man. The type of girls The Wannabe gets are girls The Man didn’t want. Usually girls end up hanging out with him because they’re trying to get with The Man again or make The Man jealous by going out with one of his friends. What they fail to realize is that The Man doesn’t care and they are just feeding to The Wannabe’s ego. Sometimes girls hook up with The Wannabe but most of the time The Wannabe’s just trying to hard to be The Man and play games and shit and girls eventually pity him and get tired of it. These guys have huge egos and think they’re the shit. But they’re not.
Another type of Wannabes is the guy who gets absolutely no chicks with personality but he tries so hard to be “cool” so he spends whatever income he has taking girls out. He spends most of his time making sure they go to a crowded place where lots of people can see hes with this girl. He does this with as many girls as possible to try to look as if he gets alot of chicks. What he doesn’t seem to realize is his little scheme does not work very often. Everyone knows girls only go out with him for a free meal or some shopping when they are bored. They have no respect or liking towards him. And everyone knows it.
Than you just got the Emo Guy. Throughout life things just never went their way.. These guys are miserable and have accepted it. They hate their work, they don’t have much friends, and just negative attitude towards life in general. They don’t get girls and if they do, their relationship usually ends fast and they become even more bitter in the end. It’s depressing to hang out with them and it almost seems as if they like being miserable. Lots of times they have one obsessive talent or hobby and think they know everything about this one thing which gives them a big ego and you shouldn’t try to put a dent in. It just won’t work.
Last but not least we have the Married Man. Keep in mind Married Men are not necessarily married and not all married men are Married Men. These guys have above average to excellent social skills. Reasonably to very successful. No old traumas or problems haunt them. They always seem to be in a good mood. When bad things happen, they bounce back. People love Married Men. They are very faithful. They have a good amount of female friends as well as females who like them. Big group of friends. They are nice but not too nice. Married Men are almost always taken. If they aren’t, they just got out of a relationship (that ended smoothly) or if it didn’t than they are on their way to becoming The Man. The Men who get over their fears end up as Married Men. Or they’re focused on something else right now and just aren’t with someone at the time. Single Married Men are rarer than a blue moon. Okay, maybe new moon.
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