Just once, Love Is Only A Memory


59 letters, 5 exchanged diaries. It began with a smile and ended with a tear.












I've spent a painful Sunday packing, and sorting out the letters my ex girlfriend and me wrote and exchange during our time together. Now i finally understand why i still miss her so much, despite 2 years have passed.
Because we both shared something so deep and so special, and love made us grow together. That's the real facade of love. Everyday with her felt like a first day of romance itself. We hold love so dear and so close to our hearts.

Love gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.


别提你的心

词: 徐世珍、王芮齐 曲: 李 菘

试著把你捧在手心
然而你却流著泪再也不领情
像一朵蒲公英 宁愿散尽
也不愿成全在我的怀里
我留不住你
总是等到夜深慢慢靠近
才愿意释放心中全部的感情
翻出所有回忆 塞进行李
和你的过去现在我还不敢想起
不能忘记
如果是你的幸福断送在我手里
我的痛苦怎么会比你的轻
算了吧 别再提 你的心
只要曾经快乐我也就可以
不留痕迹忘了我自己
Love Is Only A Memory



I have no confidence of finding someone else whom can share my dreams, my fears, my joy and my sorrow anymore. That's why my world stopped spinning on Sept 2006.


Love is not simply the mere absence Hate or formed due to loneliness itself. True love can encompass everything, EVEN HATE. Thou must learn to love thy self before all. True love never lives happily ever after - true love has no ending.

When we hold each other, in the darkness, it doesn't make the darkness go away. The bad things are still out there. The nightmares still walking. When we hold each other we feel not safe, but better.'It's all right' we whisper, 'I'm here, I love you.' and we lie: 'I'll never leave you.' For just a moment or two the darkness doesn't seem so bad.

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程,每个人的人生都要找到四个人。

第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人,
第三个是最爱你的人,
第四个是共度一生的人.

但很悲哀的,这三个人通常不是同一个人!

你最爱的,往往没有选择你;
最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的;
而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的,只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。

在适当的时机,碰到适当的人,叫着幸福。
在适当的时机,碰到不适当的人,叫着错误。
在不适当的时机,碰到适当的人,叫着遗憾。


James Ingram - Just once

I did my best
But I guess my best wasn't good enough
'Cause here we are back where we were before
Seems nothing ever changes
We're back to being strangers
Wondering if we oughta stay
Or head on out the door

Just once can't we figure out what we keep doing wrong?
Why we never last for very long
What are we doing wrong?
Just once can't we find a way to finally make it right?
"Make the magic last for more than just one night"
If we could just get to it
I know we could break through it

I gave my all
But I think my all may have been too much
'Cause Lord knows we're not getting anywhere
Seems we're always blowing whatever we've got going
And seems at times with all we've got
We haven't got a prayer

This are my only memories. "I wrote in my final letter," One day I'll tell my grandchildren of a special women in my life once." Currently my heart is vacant, yet unable to house another occupant at the time.



Qn: "Why is love so enchanting?"

Ans: "Because Love is the closest thing to Magic we've got in reality. "





59 letters, 5 exchanged diaries. It began with a smile and ended with a tear.